Last night I had the privilege of attending my friends’ second wedding, their renewal of vows after 16 years of blissful marriage.

This celebration was great not only because it was to celebrate a lasting love between two people, but also on the money side of things, was made way more affordable because of the bride’s people skills, practicality and cash smarts.

Instead of gifts, friends and family were asked to help in the organizing and planning and contributing to the event.  For entertainment, my boyfriend, a musician, was asked to play his guitar to accompany another friend, a trained singer, while she sang the couple’s favorite songs.  Other friends were asked to contribute their well-known home-made floral arrangements, another friend, a seamstress, made the bride’s and flower girls’ dresses.  Some friends who were known for certain recipes brought the food, another was placed in charge of the grill as he loves to barbeque.  Someone who recently bought a fancy new camera was assigned photography duties and more than happily clicked away all night long.   Others who had organizational skills coordinated everyone else by making all the phone calls, sending out the invites, etc.

In their contributions, people’s unique talents were showcased.  Not only did the guests feel good about helping the couple out with the party, but they also felt good about being able to show-off and be recognized for their skills.

My compliments to the bride for some very smart party planning.

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