I know this blog is all for saving money, but sometimes one can be too cheap. And when one is too cheap, she, or her boyfriend, often pays a high price for being so later on as the story below illustrates…
True story, I almost killed my boyfriend once.
This happened when I was around eight months pregnant with my now 17 year-old kid. I was not the most pleasant pregnant lady. In fact, I was a raging bee-atch most of the time. Aside from the worry that I wouldn’t be able to afford to keep the baby, the hormones were making me cranky, and honestly, very stupid. Sometimes my sense of judgement was waaay off, making me paranoid and irritable. My boyfriend at the time was very supportive and patient. He would shower me with gifts and drive around the city just to get me the food I wanted and despite all this, I wasn’t very nice to him.
One day, a couple of girlfriends witnessed me being mean to him. ”You are very lucky to have this man. He’s so good to you, why don’t you treat him better?” they said. This opened my eyes. I resolved to be nicer and decided to make him a home-cooked dinner. But I didn’t know how to cook. All I knew to do at this time in my life was microwave TV dinners. I found an old recipe book and decided I could make grilled chicken and fried rice. I started cooking. No surprise that the dishes didn’t turn out well. The rice was both mushy and crunchy and the chicken did not look like chicken. ”I can’t throw this out, I spent all this time and money on it, it would be a waste,” I thought, so I served it to my boyfriend anyway.
Upon seeing the catastrophe that I brought to the dining table, my boyfriend said, “Ummm, I don’t think this fish is quite cooked, honey.” ”So you don’t want to eat what I slaved all day making for you? Here I am being so nice and you won’t eat my food!?!” said I. ”Well, why don’t you have some first?”, he said. ”Excuse me? This is YOUR food, I can’t eat it!” Anyway, I MADE him eat it and the next day, all day, he was in bed very sick. Oops.
So, moral of the story? Don’t ever eat bad food or feed it to someone else just because it would be wasteful to get rid of it. And be nice to your boyfriends all the time.
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